If you are of a certain age, you cannot read “Looking for love” and not think “Wooking pa Nub”. Well, we got that out of the way. Boss Girls have big problems. They are taking to TikTok to vent their privileged spleens. I don’t mean “White Privilege”. I mean “Civilized Western World, 21st Century Privilege”. They have it all, but they can’t find love. Have they tried watching Harrison Butker’s speech?
“A Man is Not a Plan: Success Strategies for Independent Women” was famously bleated by Fani Willis on the witness stand, but is actually a book by Mary Grace Musuneggi. The teaser on Amazon reads:
If You Are a Woman Who Wants to Live Life to Its Fullest, this Book Is for You. At the age of 25, as a widow with a nine-month old son, Mary Grace Musuneggi became keenly aware that Cinderella was a fairy tale and that her salary as a parochial school teacher would never be enough to realize her goal of owning a home. Mary Grace decided to take charge of her own situation and carve out the abundant life she wanted for herself and her son. The story of her journey to become the first female agent in an insurance firm, to that firm’s first female financial planner, to Chairman and CEO of her own successful firm is filled with anecdotes, humor, and practical advice. In her role as a financial planner, Mary Grace meets women of all ages who rely on a man as a financial plan with disastrous results. But you won’t find detailed instructions about how to make a budget here because this book is about more than money. It is about finding the courage to be CEO of your own life, whether a man is in your life or not.
You can all be Boss Girls. Doesn’t that just sound exhausting? No wonder these Boss Girls are opening a vein on TikTok. Yes, Cinderella was a fairy tale. That’s why the story ended at “And, they lived happily ever after”. Royal life is hard work, albeit there is less chance of losing your head than in the past. Still, finding Prince Charming is grueling. Good thing we are not princesses.
From Not the Bee:
This problem is everywhere, and women are less satisfied with their lives than ever. Yes, Disney feminism set the stage. Yes, the erosion of marriage and traditional roles actually enslaved people to time and possessions (and left them lonely to boot) instead of liberating them. Yes, putting self above God led to despair instead of happiness.
Less satisfied like this:
Why are so many 29 yr old boss girls from Tiktok having public meltdowns about failing to find a man? pic.twitter.com/MaXY1yLKZG
— Richard Cooper (@Rich_Cooper) May 17, 2024
She wants love in her life so badly, but it’s just about her. I know. I was her for a short time. All MY friends had moved on from ME. Looking back, I don’t blame them. It was all about ME and my Boss Girl self. I thought I was soooooo special. I was so banal. Then, things got super, super busy. I was so exhausted. I was dragging my sorry tail. But I am a Southerner so I tried to smile and be polite to everyone that helped shake me out of my Boss Girls phase. Like this girl was thirsting for this before she went into the comedy show.
I don’t know that this lady passed anyone by, maybe none of the men she has met, at 33, has been right for her. On the other hand, you just know she was shooting lasers out of her eyes the whole comedy show.
33 yr old woman, that’s been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.
Why are women doing this and how many guys did she pass on to get to this point? pic.twitter.com/dKj7da1G9G
— Richard Cooper (@Rich_Cooper) May 20, 2024
More from the Bee article:
If you want love, you must understand what love is. Love involves sacrifice – putting aside your own ambitions and desires for another person, even if the personal cost is great. Love puts aside personal feelings for the truth. Love protects someone even if that means getting hurt yourself. Love endures through the hardest seasons, even when you are getting less out of a relationship than you are putting in.
We are not talking about abuse and addiction here. Never acceptable. Love means often saying sorry and negotiating for everything. Love means taking chances and getting hurt.
Maybe watch what Harrison Butker said without your ego:
“Suffering in this life is only temporary.” Smile.
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